Neediness and Narcissistic Defensive Action

Abstract

Action-prone patients are difficult for most analysts to treat. The author describes patients who act in treatment by pressuring themselves and the analyst to get rid of what is wrong, to change the imperative, life-and-death qualities of need into something else. Viewing neediness in treatment as narcissistic defensive action helps the analyst address the patient’s pressured flight away from focusing on the need of the analyst and toward action aimed at riddance. Ghent’s (1992, 1993) views on neediness are discussed and seen to be complemented by a view of action as protection against narcissistic vulnerability. Analysts’ intolerance, vulnerabilities, and needs with such patients are considered.

• Action
• narcissistic defense
• neediness
• need
• needy
• intolerance
• vulnerability
• countertransference