Research on men's sexual scripts has tended to overlook that some men do not endorse traditional scripts or that one or both members of a couple might desire a departure from culturally dominant sexual scripts. This study used in‐depth interviews with 32 college‐aged men from a community college in New York City to examine disjunctures between current and desired sexual initiation patterns. Results show that although most men currently practice male‐dominated patterns of sexual initiation, many men desire egalitarian patterns of initiation. Men offered clear preference to be an object of desire to their female partners, deployed narratives of wanting to share the “labor” of sexual initiation, and expressed ideologies of sexual egalitarianism. We consider how shifting terrains of gender relations in contemporary U.S. culture may shape masculinities and sexual scripts. We also consider how an examination of disjunctures between current and desired practices might be useful to HIV researchers interested in intervening across multiple levels of the sexual script.
The Journal of Sex Research
Volume 42, 2005 - Issue 2
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