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On-Again/Off-Again Dating Relationships: What Keeps Partners Coming Back?

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Pages 417-440 | Received 05 Jul 2009, Accepted 16 Apr 2010, Published online: 24 May 2011
 

ABSTRACT

Building on research comparing on-again/off-again (on-off) relationships to other dating relationships, the current study focused on a unique feature of these relationships—renewals. A sample of 274 participants who had experienced an on-off relationship completed a survey about why they renewed their relationships, characteristics of their breakups and renewals, and what stressors and benefits they experienced. These characteristics were used to predict the occurrence of renewals, separately as well as in multivariate analyses. In addition to lingering feelings being a predominant reason for renewals, findings suggested uncertainty about what the preceding breakup indicated, not having dated others after breakups, and feeling the on-off nature improved the relationship were all related to an increased chance of renewals. Mutual initiations of breakups, as well as reporting uncertainty about the general nature of the relationship, were also related to a decreased chance of renewals.

Acknowledgments

A version of this article was presented at the 2008 International Association for Relationship Research in Providence, RI. We would like to thank Gretchen Clark for her assistance in the coding.

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