Couple therapy: An integration of object relations and intersubjective theory

Abstract

In this paper, a detailed clinical example of a couple therapy highlights how the integration of object relational and intersubjective theory is beneficial for the growth of the couple system. Theory based on Benjamin's (1992) formulation of “where objects were, subjects must be” (p. 44) frame the intersubjective treatment techniques reported here. In addition, a case example demonstrates how a couple began to manage the difficult challenge of maintaining autonomy (individuality) while being emotionally connected in the relationship. The paper demonstrates how projective identification patterns in the couple system give way to mutuality for the individuals in the partnership.

Notes

Dennis Miehls, Ph.D., C.S.W., is an Associate Professor at the School of Social Work, King's College, University of Western Ontario, London, Ontario. He is also a member of the Adjunct Faculty at Smith College School of Social Work, and has a clinical practice in London, Ontario.