Dialogues with parents

Abstract

This paper offers an overview of current clinical approaches to psychoanalytically informed work with parents by child psychotherapists. The analysis is based on practice at the Tavistock Clinic and on broader knowledge of trends in work with children and families within the National Health Service. A brief history sets the scene. Four varieties of approach are described, with clinical examples. The particular sensitivity of child psychotherapists to infantile features in the personality is highlighted, and it is argued that this, together with their broad clinical experience, provides a proper basis for psychoanalytic psychotherapy with parents. Such work significantly extends and enriches the clinical contribution of child psychotherapists and has involved a shift in professional identity. It also raises ethical issues which are discussed.

Key Words:

• Supportive work
• intergenerational transference
• infantile anxiety
• parental functioning