Growing up feeling special: Retrospective reflections of eminent Canadian women

This exploratory study describes the reflections of eminent Canadian women on the dynamics of their childhood families, focusing on their perceptions of having a special status or role. Over three‐quarters (76%) of the respondents indicated they were considered special or had a definite role as children within the family of origin. Those given special treatment most often attributed it to their birth order, scholastic achievement, condition of health, or display of talents. Family members expressed this specialness by bestowing an abundance of attention, love, and caring. Many participants reported having roles within the family or designated epithets such as “the bookworm,” “the brain,” or “the responsible one.” When respondents believed that a sibling held a special position, the reasons provided were less often related to achievements and abilities. Brothers were reported as being special due to their gender or health; sisters because of their talent, beauty, charm or delicateness.