“Reins Theory”: Make Sure You Are at the Right End!

Abstract

Reins are a pair of long straps, usually of leather used to control a horse. They are connected to the bridle at the bit and enable the rider to control pace and direction. A very similar mechanism is used by some to control small children. While the attachments differ, the principles remain the same. Reins have understandably become analogous with any form of control. Reins unambiguously have two ends: a “control” end and a “controlled” end. Many, quite superbly crafted rein and bridle systems have evolved to enhance the elegance of the device and the subtlety of communication between horse and rider. However, the essence of the system remains unchanged. No matter how refined, the reins remain a crucial part of a “control mechanism”. Reins need not be made of leather and steel. Some of the most effective are woven of attitudes, expectation, and fears. This is not a scientific paper. It is an article based on a suspicion, supported by very subjective experience and anecdotal evidence. It seems to me that people categorised as “older” are often precipitately moved to the “controlled” end of the “reins” system.