The lived experience of second-generation, Indian, Hindu women in a cross-cultural romantic relationship: an interpretative phenomenological analysis

Abstract

Given the importance of cultural continuity within the Indian culture, numerous studies have highlighted the challenges second-generation, Indian women endure, particularly in relation to decisions around romantic relationships. These challenges can have a psychological impact on the women, including an impact on their romantic relationship and with their families. The current study aimed to explore the lived experience of second-generation, Indian, Hindu (IH) women, living in the United Kingdom, who are in a heterosexual, cross-cultural, romantic (CCRR) relationship. Seven participants aged between 24 and 40 years were recruited. The participants were interviewed, and the data was analysed using Interpretative Phenomenological Analysis (IPA). From the data, three superordinate themes were identified: (1) “Predetermined Identity,” (2) “The Two Worlds don’t Meet,” (3) “Enduring Challenges.” Implications of the findings for clinical practice are discussed.

LAY SUMMARY

The research explored the experiences of second-generation, Indian, Hindu women who were in a cross-cultural, romantic relationship. The results highlighted various tensions experienced by the women due to the opposing cultural systems they live in. The research adds to the limited research in the UK and can develop understanding in this area.

Keywords:

• Cross-cultural;
• romantic relationships;
• bicultural identity;
• second-generation;
• Indian;
• Hindu;
• interpretative phenomenological analysis

Disclosure statement

No potential conflict of interest was reported by the authors.

Funding

This research did not receive any specific grant from funding agencies in the public, commercial, or not-for-profit sectors.

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Notes on contributors

Philomena Da Silva

Philomena Da Silva is a Counselling Psychologist working in women’s health in London. Philomena has a great interest in culture, biculturalism, the process of acculturation, cross-cultural romantic relationships and feminism.

Angela Ioanna Loulopoulou

Angela Ioanna Loulopoulou is a principal lecturer in Counselling Psychology, London and the programme director of the Professional Doctorate in Counselling Psychology, London Metropolitan University. Angela’s research interests are mainly in qualitative research. She is in particular interested in identity formation, change, and language; multiculturalism and the acculturation process; sexism; feminism; racial and equality; recovery from trauma; refugee experience; resilience and positive psychology; addictive behaviours, and diversity and LGBT issues. Angela is also a practitioner counselling psychologist, working therapeutically with people.