Can heterosexual counsellors or generic agencies help same-sex couples? An exploratory study

Gay men and women were interviewed in single-sex focus groups in order to learn more about the therapeutic help that could be offered to people in same-sex relationships. Interviews were analysed using the constant comparative method. Among the various themes that emerged was the need to have their relationships valued and accepted and the damaging effects of living in a heterosexist and homophobic society. The need for men, in particular, to identify a set of developmental stages for gay relationships was important. Difficulties in seeking help from mainstream organisations are discussed and recommendations made for both counsellors and agencies.

Key words:

• counselling
• focus groups
• sexual orientation