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Original Articles

The Blessings and the Curses of Filial Piety on Dignity at the End of Life: Lived Experience of Hong Kong Chinese Adult Children Caregivers

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Pages 277-296 | Published online: 20 Nov 2012
 

Abstract

This study critically examines the evolving nature of filial piety and the role that it plays in the contemporary experience of “living and dying with dignity” among Hong Kong Chinese families facing the end of life. Meaning-oriented interviews were conducted with a purposive sample of 15 adult-children caregivers, ages 30 to 62, to elicit their narratives and stories in caring for a dying elderly parent. Qualitative content analysis reveals that although traditional filial beliefs provided motivation for family caregiving, the regrets of unfulfilled filial responsibilities create emotional distance between parents and adult children, which acts as a cultural barrier for reconciliation and contentment at life's final margin. These findings underscore the importance of intergenerational dynamics and interactions in the transformation of filial attitudes and behaviors, highlighting the importance of reciprocal relationships (versus authority relationship), mutual support (versus complete obedience), compassionate duty (versus obligatory duty), emotional connection (versus task fulfillment), and appreciation and forgiveness (versus guilt and shame) in the promotion of dignity at the end of life. Policy and clinical implications are discussed.

Acknowledgments

This study was funded by the General Research Fund, Research Grant Council, Hong Kong SAR Government (Ref no: HKU 740909H). We would like to express our deepest appreciation and gratitude to all of our participants for sharing their stories on life's most precious moments; this has truly been a rewarding and humbling experience. We would also like to extend our thanks to Ms. Yammi Yuen, Ms. Candy Fong, and Ms. Pearl Tse for their assistance in the fieldwork stage of the study.

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