'It's Not the Easy Part'

Abstract

Partners of women with breast cancer are intimately affected by their disease. This study describes the lived experience of the significant others of women with early stage breast cancer at the point of their partners' completion of adjuvant therapies. Significant others describe their need to adapt to the fear of losing their partner, the impact on their own mortality and their new role of caregiver for which they were unprepared. The greatest divergence between patient and partner was at the point of treatment completion. Whereas the women were continuing to experience difficulties at this time, their significant others were focused on ‘getting back to normal’ There is a need to increase our understanding of the psychosocial needs of primary carers in order to better support them, as integral members of the care team.

Key Words:

• Significant others
• treatment completion
• partners
• breast cancer
• post treatment
• primary carers
• lived experience