The Ghost Triangle as an Obstacle to Intimacy

SUMMARY

This paper addresses some of the issues associated with a ghost triangle that threatened intimate bonding between a couple. A widower's unresolved mourning had led to an impasse in the relationship. Because only one partner sought therapy, intervention was limited to assessing options for detriangulation as requisite to the viability of the relationship, followed by individual and group support to develop relationship closure. Additional treatment goals included creating self-awareness about past and present problematic relationship patterns and strengthening self-care and mutual support.

Key Words:

• Couple
• triangle
• widowhood
• ghost
• relationship
• intimacy
• treatment