THE PRICE TAG OF RESPONSIBILITY

Abstract

An opportunity in single-parenthood for women is the enhanced sense of competence. Yet, a well-documented hazard is depressed well-being. Remarriage may reverse these outcomes. This study compared two matched samples of divorced and remarried mothers. Contrary to the research hypothesis, remarried mothers had both a higher sense of competence and well-being than divorced mothers, which was significantly related to feelings of competence and satisfaction in the areas of love, community, and homemaking. There were no differences in other areas, such as work or parenting. Differences in income were significantly related to these outcomes, but did not predict a particular competence and well-being type. Remarried mothers were high on the "Love Competency" and "Achievement" Factors and low on the "Friendships" Factor, while the reverse was true for the divorced; these differences best distinguished the two marital groups. Overall, the sense of competence and well-being were dependent and dynaniically inseparable, both globally and in specific life areas. Risks to the sense of competence and well-being for single-parents were feeling in control of and satisfied with their time, finances, current lives (especially in areas of love, community, homemaking), aspirations, and futures. With proper attention to the legitimization and support of the single-parent, intervention might best focus also on single-parenthood as a training ground for self-empowerment and not remarriage.