‘We did more rough sleeping just to be together’ – Homeless drug users’ romantic relationships in hostel accommodation

Abstract

Aims: This article explores the intimate relationships of homeless drug users (HDUs) who stay in emergency hostels and night shelters.

Methods: Data collection took place across South Central England and involved semi-structured interviews with 40 HDUs (29 males; 11 females), who were currently staying, or had recently stayed, in emergency hostels and shelters. Interviews were professionally transcribed and systematically coded. Data relating to participants’ intimate relationships were retrieved and analysed using Framework.

Findings: Fourteen individuals were currently in a relationship, and all 40 had previously been in a relationship, often whilst homeless. Key themes and concepts identified were: relationship commitment and the desire to be together; physical proximity, including sexual intercourse, and the role of anomalous bodies; enforced separations and their impact on relationships; relationship problems and risks; and the beneficial effects of relationships on anxiety, isolation, safety and the management and reduction of drug consumption.

Conclusions: Despite barriers and difficulties, HDUs can and do engage in functional and positive romantic relationships. Services which are unsympathetic or hostile to HDUs’ needs for meaningful intimate relationships potentially exacerbate the social exclusion HDUs already experience and may undermine one of the few forms of social capital that they are able to access.

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1. The Big Issue is a magazine sold by homeless and vulnerably housed people in order to earn a legitimate income.