I’ll Be There for You: Couples’ Support Providing and Seeking Behaviors in a Stressful Situation

Abstract

We examined the associations between stress and support seeking or providing in couples during a stressful situation, as well as the moderating role of hyperactivation and deactivation of the attachment and caregiving systems. One hundred nine couples completed questionnaires and participated in an in-laboratory situation aiming to induce stress. Support seekers with higher stress or higher hyperactivation reported a greater desire to be with their partner during the procedure, while those with higher deactivation reported a lower desire to be with their partner. Support providers with higher hyperactivation also reported a greater desire to accompany their partner. Support providers who perceived their partner as more stressed reported a lower desire to be with them when their partner reported greater deactivation. Clinical implications are discussed.

Keywords:

• couples
• caregiving
• romantic attachment
• support providing
• support seeking

Disclosure statement

The authors declare no potential conflicts of interest.

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Funding

This work was supported by a Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council (SSHRC) doctoral fellowship awarded to the first author and a grant from SSHRC.