Abstract
The inability to manage distress would be problematic at any time; but it is especially problematic when distress is accompanied by (or made up of) feelings of rage, cruelty and self-hatred. I will argue here that people who self-harm are communicating rage and hostility to themselves and others in ways that often leave them frustrated and hopeless; and leave professional carers aghast. I will conclude with some ideas about psychological therapies that may help such people; drawing very much upon the work of colleagues in the forensic psychotherapy field: especially Anne Aiyegbusi (Citation2004), Anna Motz (Citation2008, Citation2009) and Estela Welldon (1992).
Acknowledgements
This paper is based on a talk given on 30 October 2009 to a conference on the management of deliberate self-harm organized by East London Mental Health Trust Psychological Therapy Services. My thanks to them for giving me the opportunity to develop my thinking here.