The driver whose heart was full of sand: Leigh's story – a play therapy case study of a bereaved child

ABSTRACT

This paper describes the therapeutic journey of Leigh (not his real name), a nine-year-old boy who was referred for play therapy due to the death of his 15-year-old brother. The play therapy was offered through a joint project called ‘Playing through Loss’ and run jointly between a UK university and the local branch of a national bereavement organisation. The project was set up to offer play therapy to bereaved children in the local area. Leigh had eight sessions of therapy and this paper describes the major themes of his play and makes some preliminary explorations of the meaning the play may have had for him. Interestingly some of his play focused on a computer game called ‘Zelda’ and an exploration of the powerfulness of this as a therapeutic tool is also explored. The therapist's theoretic orientation is described along with her perceived role as ‘loyal companion’. Finally, the process by which Leigh worked with his loss is discussed.

Keywords:

• bereavement
• play therapy
• loss