Raising Children in Heterosexual and Same-Sex Families: French-Canadian Women’s Shared Maternal Experiences

ABSTRACT

In recent years, there has been growing interest in studying coparenting across family structures. However, to date little is known about how women coparent with other women in stepfamilies. To better understand the lived experience of women who coparent with other women in either heterosexual or lesbian stepfamilies, this exploratory qualitative study interviewed 15 adult women individually. The data analysis helped us identify the main trends pertaining to the manner in which participants conceptualize their maternal role and how they share and divide the maternal territory among the various women involved in parenting (step)children. Findings revealed 3 main themes: (a) the internalization of societal expectations about motherhood, (b) stepmotherhood is a coconstructed role that depends on consensus support, and (c) the role and importance of communication in dividing and sharing the maternal territory.

KEYWORDS:

• lesbian mother
• mothering
• same-sex partners
• stepfamily
• stepmother

Notes

¹ Names have been changed to protect the anonymity of participants.