Practically Perfect in Every Way: Communication Strategies of Ideal Relational Partners

Abstract

This study utilized social exchange constructs to examine communication strategies used by self-defined ideal relational partners when initiating dating relationships. Two hundred forty-four participants generated 1183 communication strategies they would use to initiate relationships if they believed themselves to be ideal partners. A content analysis revealed 15 categories of communication strategies enacted by ideal relational partners. These categories included initiation, emotional disclosure, direct inquiry, impression management, shared activities, supportive behaviors, information gathering, gift giving, compliments, other-initiated behaviors, assistance from others, self-acceptance, pickup lines, bragging, and use of humor. Implications for interpersonal communication research are discussed.

Keywords:

• Social Exchange
• Dating
• Ideal Relational Partners
• Communication Strategies

A version of this paper was presented at the 2004 Central States Communication Association Convention held in Cleveland, Ohio.

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Notes on contributors

Susan M. Wildermuth

Susan M. Wildermuth (Ph.D. 2001, University of Minnesota) is an Assistant Professor

Sally Vogl-Bauer

Sally Vogl-Bauer (Ph.D. 1994, University of Kentucky) is an Associate Professor

Julimar Rivera

Julimar Rivera (Master's Candidate 2004, University of Wisconsin—Whitewater) is a graduate student in the Department of Communication at the University of Wisconsin—Whitewater.