A reconnection with life: Helping donor families cope after loss

Abstract

In the midst of tragedy, two families made a compassionate decision that would change the lives of several fellow human beings. This article describes separate but parallel journeys taken by a donor mother and a donor father who said “yes” to organ donation, choosing to extend the circle of life. In their own words, they describe the pain of their loss, attempts at coping, and the healing they are beginning to feel years after the death of their children, Cory and Kevin. Following their experience with donation, they set forth to encourage one organ procurement organization to take a more proactive role in developing comprehensive bereavement support services that empower donor families. This article also discusses the available literature regarding the experience of organ donation as part of coping with the loss of a loved one. Some research directions are suggested.