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‘Pervy role-play and such’: girls' experiences of sexual messaging online

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Pages 472-485 | Received 20 Nov 2014, Accepted 04 May 2015, Published online: 02 Jul 2015
 

Abstract

Sexting is one of the recurring causes of concern in public discussion of young people and network media. This paper builds on findings from a survey with 1269 Finnish female respondents aged 11–18 conducted using a popular online community for girls on their experiences of and views on online messages concerning sex and sexuality. Sixty-five per cent of respondents had received messages related to sex from either adults or minors while 20% had also sent such messages themselves. The paper asks how girls experience and make sense of sexual messaging and what motivates them to engage in such interactions. Specific attention is paid to the distinction between unwanted and wanted messages. While messages from unknown people identified as adult were often discussed as unpleasant or ‘creepy’, sexual messaging, role-play, cybersex experiments and discussions related to sex among peers were defined as fun and pleasurable. Girls display notable resilience and describe coping strategies connected to unwanted messaging but equally frame sexual messaging and role-play as issues of choice motivated by curiosity and pleasure. The paper addresses sexual messaging as a form of sexual play and learning, and argues for the importance of contextual analysis in understanding its forms and potentialities.

Disclosure statement

No potential conflict of interest was reported by the authors.

Notes

1. The survey was conducted anonymously. We have, however, added pseudonyms here to more clearly indicate to the reader which responses we are drawing on. This paper altogether cites 42 respondents. The citations were translated from Finnish by the authors with the aim of retaining their style and feel.

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