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Calming the tempest, bridging the gorge: healing in couples ruptured by “sex addiction”

Pages 76-86 | Received 19 May 2013, Accepted 21 Nov 2013, Published online: 02 Jan 2014
 

Abstract

Frequently couples seek marital therapy for the painful impact of one partner's “sex addiction.” Disagreement abounds in both the clinical world and the larger society, about what the designation “sex addiction” actually means. A variety of diagnostic categories are subsumed under it, creating confusion about both its causes and effective treatments. The current paper proposes precise definition and diagnostic language regarding a range of compulsive sexual behaviors. It maps a model for understanding and treating compulsive sexual activity in marital therapy in a stepwise sequence, beginning with careful history taking and diagnostics of both partners, identification of the mutually reinforcing relationship dynamics keeping destructive behaviors in play, processing of underlying psychological and developmental roots of such behaviors, cultivation of empathy and trust, and revitalizing of the couple's sexual relationship. The method is illustrated with a case history.

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Ruth Cohn

Ruth Cohn, MFT and AASECT, certified sex therapist, is in private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area. She specializes in work with adults with histories of childhood trauma and neglect and their intimate partners and families. She also practices EEG neurofeedback. She is the author of Coming Home to Passion: Restoring Loving Sexuality in Couples with Histories of Childhood Trauma and Neglect.

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