The light in the shadows: therapeutic explorations of fantasy and fear*

Abstract

Recent decades have given rise to a preponderance of studies centered on fantasies involving forced sexual experiences. While the genesis, meaning, and plot of these fantasies vary greatly, it is clear that sexual trauma survivors often experience such force fantasies. Some individuals who have experienced sexual trauma may engage in certain practices, termed shadowplay within the BDSM and Kink communities, to work through their trauma. Shadowplay may involve re-enacting sexually traumatic events with the purpose of regaining control over oneself, one’s memories, or one’s experience of trauma. Therapists and clinicians must become aware of shadowplay and its many manifestations in order to better support their clients throughout the treatment process. This article describes the various manifestations of shadowplay and provides guidelines for appropriate clinical support of such behaviors.

Keywords:

• Shadowplay
• rape fantasy
• sex therapy
• BDSM/Kink
• sexual fantasy

Acknowledgements

We appreciate Sanjana Friedman's excellent editing support.