Integration of sexual and relational mental representations in autobiographical memories is associated with sexual well-being

Abstract

Determinants of sexual well-being have often been identified as sexual and relational satisfaction, which both include a focus on partner relationship. Such a conceptualization excludes sexually active single individuals, while confusing sexual and relational satisfaction with sexual well-being as both determinant and outcome. In this research, we propose an intrapersonal perspective focused on cognitive sexual and relational mental representations as determinants of sexual well-being. Based on behavioral systems theory, we suggest that a high level of integration of sexual and relational mental representations should be associated with sexual well-being indicators, whereas a weaker level of integration should correspond to a lower level of sexual well-being. We developed a novel codification scheme to measure the cognitive integration of sexual and relational mental representations in narratives of sexual autobiographical memories. We examined its associations with sexual well-being indicators (satisfaction, passion, and sociosexuality). In a sample of 142 students, results showed that integration of sexual and relational representations in memories was positively associated with sexual satisfaction and harmonious passion, and negatively with obsessive passion and sociosexual desire. Results suggest that an integrated cognitive organization of sexual and relational mental representations in autobiographical memories can reflect a greater sexual well-being. Clinical implications are discussed.

Lay Summary

Autobiographical memories are rich systems formed by the association of mental representations (e.g. images, words, scripts) that may reflect individual’s personality. Measuring organization of relational and sexual mental representations in sexual memories– an innovative method – provides an individual indicator reflecting sexual well-being. This is a wealthy avenue for having a new comprehension of mechanisms associated with sexual well-being, beyond relationship status or the type of personal relationships.

Keywords:

• Autobiographical memories
• cognitive integration
• intimacy
• mental representations
• sexual satisfaction
• sexual well-being

Disclosure statement

No potential conflict of interest was reported by the authors.

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Funding

This work was supported by the Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council of Canada under Grant 435-2017-1358.