Beyond Theory: Martin Buber’s I and Thou and the Role of Contemplation in Integrated Relational Counseling

Abstract

The current paradigm in mental health practice does not completely protect practitioners from theory-induced blindness. Many clinicians continue to rely on stable theoretical frameworks, which, although helpful, can become a hindrance to integrated relational practice. Overreliance on a particular theory or set of techniques can prevent clinicians from adopting a genuinely relational orientation. This article describes the nature of the contemplative-relational orientation using concepts from Martin Buber’s I and Thou and proposes that clinicians wishing to build competency in integrated relational counseling may benefit from contemplative prayer, meditation, and other mindfulness practices. A clinical vignette is provided and illustrates general features of an integrated relational approach, and empirical evidence is advanced to support the benefits of contemplative practice for mental health practitioners.

Keywords:

• Counselor development
• existentialism
• integrative psychotherapy
• meditation
• mindfulness
• relational counseling
• self-care

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Antonio F. García

Antonio F. García is a doctoral student in the Department of Psychology at the University of Texas at San Antonio, San Antonio, Texas.