Adaptation and Transformation: The Transition to Adoptive Parenthood for Gay Male Couples

ABSTRACT

This study explored the experiences of adoptive gay male couples in their transition to parenthood through qualitative in-depth interviews with eight gay male couples (N = 16). Data analysis revealed unique journeys to parenthood traveled by study participants during three phases of the adoption process. At pre-adoption, couples successfully overcame negative stereotypes about gay parenting in preparation for the vicissitudes of heterocentric adoption they would encounter. Couples adopted new parenting and partner roles which sometimes challenged the relationship, while they spoke of parenting as transformative of their identities as gay men and as a couple. Implications for practice with adoptive gay couples are also discussed.

KEYWORDS:

• Adoption
• gay male couples
• transition to parenthood