Rapidly Recognizing Relationships: Observing Speed Dating in the South

Abstract

In today's fast-paced society, speed dating is becoming prevalent as a method of meeting potential partners for an intimate interpersonal relationship. At each event, participants can meet at least 6 potential partners, and quickly determine whether there is a connection that may lead to additional meetings. Through observations of the speed dates, 2 primary themes were established. Participants unconsciously progress through 3 phases of Berger and Calabrese's Uncertainty Reduction Theory gauging compatibility. Second, female participants passively assess the potential relationship, as males tend to dominate the situation. Through further observation and study, researchers can validate these “thin slices” as an effective method of meeting potential partners and developing intimate relationships.

Keywords:

• Courting
• Nonverbal Cues
• Speed Dating
• Thin-Slicing
• Uncertainty Reduction Theory

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Notes on contributors

Jessica Deyo

Jessica Deyo (MA, University of Alabama at Birmingham, 2010) is an Admissions Representative at Herzing University, 2500 Williams Blvd. New Orleans, LA 70065.

Price Walt

Price Walt (MA, University of Alabama at Birmingham, 2010) is the Director of Special Projects at Delta Magazine, P.O. Box 117, Cleveland, MS 38732.

Leah Davis

Leah Davis (MA, University of Alabama at Birmingham, 2009) is a Program Coordinator at the Nelson and Sue Andrews Institute for Civic Leadership, Lipscomb University, One University Park Drive, Nashville, TN 37204.