The Incorporation of Values into the Counseling Relationship

Abstract

Historically, within the counseling relationship, many counselors have been either unwilling to project their values or willing only to project them in tandem with other colleagues or societal institutions. In many instances, counselors may refer difficult decisions to others. This approach may be deficient, because it permits counselors to avoid ethical and value-laden decisions that may confront and harm their clients. This article illustrates how circumstances may compel counselors to confront or even urge decisions upon their clients based on the counselors' own values. The article questions whether counselors can adhere to notions of value relativism and suggests that counselors may wish to assert their values to (1) maintain the physical integrity of a healthy person, (2) ensure adherence to democratically enacted laws, and (3) encourage exposure to persons and ideas. The article includes a discussion of counselors' roles; the values contained within the counseling relationship; and whether a counselor ultimately should suggest or urge a choice for a client.

Key Words:

• Ethics
• informed consent
• authorization
• dilemmas
• legal constraints
• professional responsibility