The burden of living with and caring for a suicidal family member

Abstract

Background: The family has a primary role in caring for family members who are suicidal and in the prevention of future suicide. However, the impact that suicidal behaviour has on these family members is poorly understood.

Aim: To explore the lived experiences of participants who cared for suicidal family members.

Methods: Eighteen participants were interviewed using a short topic guide. Responses were digitally recorded and transcripts were analysed using thematic analysis.

Results: One overarching theme: “Hard work for the whole family” and four sub-themes: (i) Family burden, (ii) competing pressures, (iii) secrecy and shame and (iv) helplessness and guilt.

Conclusions: Caring for a suicidal family member may be euphemistically summarised as “hard work” that impacts heavily on the day-to-day tasks of other family members. Participants spent much time worrying and ruminating about the risk of suicide in their family member. Mental health care professionals ought to acknowledge and address the impact that suicidal behaviour has on family carers.

• Burden on family members
• impact
• informal carers
• mental health
• suicide
• suicidal behaviour

Acknowledgements

The authors would like to thank ‘Zest – Healing the Hurt’ Derry, N. Ireland for allowing interviews to occur on their premises and also for agreeing to provide psychological support for participants should they have requested it.