The emergence of narcissism and self-esteem: A social-cognitive approachFootnote^*

* Invited submission to European Journal of Developmental Psychology, based on a presentation given at the 18th European Conference on Developmental Psychology for receiving the Butterworth Young Scientist Award.

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