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Research Article

‘If you’re uncomfortable, go outside your comfort zone’: A novel behavioral ‘stretch’ intervention supports the well-being of unhappy people

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Pages 394-410 | Received 05 Dec 2020, Accepted 28 Dec 2021, Published online: 15 May 2022

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