UNRESOLVED LOSS AND TRAUMA IN PARENTS AND THE IMPLICATIONS IN TERMS OF CHILD PROTECTION

Abstract

This paper will explore the connection between unresolved loss and trauma in parents and the resulting issues in terms of child protection. A model for assessing unresolved trauma in parents and its implications for child abuse is outlined. Particular emphasis is placed on whether the individual has been able to ‘come to terms’ with his childhood experiences. It is argued that traumatic experiences in childhood are not in themselves problematic in terms of parenting ability; what becomes crucial is whether the individual has been able to resolve the issues. The implications of unresolved trauma are explored, including the risks in child protection terms. It is argued that this model is important for two reasons: firstly, it can act as a guide for important areas to explore in assessing risk in child protection work; secondly, it can inform treatment options and the possibility of, and timescales for, change. A case example in which a baby had sustained an unexplained injury is used to illustrate the model.

Keywords:

• trauma
• lack of resolution
• child protection
• attachment theory
• change